Empower On-Demand |
The Next Room


A Daily Death Practice with Jane Whitlock

Connect Now

A Daily Death Practice with Jane Whitlock

Jane found Jane Whitlock through her Tedx Talk “What I Learned About Life From Death” and knew immediately she had to have her on the show. Jane Whitlock’s husband died at the age of 47 and she made a life pivot from educator to becoming a death doula. The two Jane’s discuss the sacred book-ends to this life experience Birth and Death and why we prepare so much for one but not the other. It’s a springboard to healthy grief with Jane Whitlock and a daily death practice on The Next Room!

[Click here to Listen]

Jane_Whitlock_520389248.jpgI am a trained end-of-life doula through Doulagivers out of NYC with Suzanne O’Brien. I provide guidance and support for individuals and families during the end-of-life process.

I became an end of life doula after taking care of my husband who died after a 4 month illness with kidney cancer. I learned first hand how I could have benefited from having someone who had been down this path before, to guide me. My husband spent the last 2 weeks of his life at a hospice house. He was fully supported medically for his physical ailments, but we both felt anxious spiritually. I think my husband would have loved having someone do guided meditations with him. Someone with experience  who could create space for him to talk about his fears freely, without trying to "fix" them.

I read the pamphlet that hospice gives you "When death draws near" about 100 times but it didn't quiet the panic inside me. I wished for the gentle, reassurance from someone that we had prepared and that I could handle what was coming, and would have welcomed blessings and poems to enrich the experience.

​Death has many gifts to offer us. The gift of living our best lives while we face dying. The gift of finding meaning in our lives. The gift of having the opportunity to tell loved ones: I'm sorry, I forgive you, thank you, and goodbye.


About Jane Asher:

Jane Asher has always been a natural connector who has enjoyed a successful career in media and the music industry, most notably at major radio stations in San Diego and Santa Barbara. Several years ago, she stepped away from terrestrial radio when Empower Radio reached out and asked her to create a show about her passion. The Next Room podcast was born.

Demystifying death daily, she interviews professionals and practitioners from diverse backgrounds about death, dying, grief, beliefs and cultural traditions surrounding the journey we all must ultimately make. The show airs across 11 platforms and has connected her with extraordinary people throughout this community. The Next Room has recently become the official podcast of the Beautiful Dying Expo.

Jane is also passionate about being involved in mission work. She has been part of a team for over five years that has built homes in Tijuana for families in need through Lutheran Border Concerns. She has traveled to El Salvador to feed the homeless, Malaysia to help build a school on Borneo, and Armenia to work with women and children in the small village of Amre Taza. Most recently, she was on a humanitarian mission in the Dominican Republic. 

Her book, The Next Room is a story transcending space and time, of a relationship between mother and daughter that grew stronger through death. Written together, by initially enlisting interpretation through a psychic medium, The Next Room takes us on a daughter's journey through learning eternal life lessons on forgiveness, grief, grace, gratitude, and the limitless love of all, God.

Jane lives in San Diego with her husband, Tom. She is now answering her passion-filled purpose and writing daily alongside her puppy and muse, Mamba.